camicheng

Hi girls! I was wondering if you could provide some feedback. I am a 24 year old chinese-american girl. I believe I have had a pretty normal sex life, my first experience with a boy was when I was 16, my first experience with a girl was when I was 18 (at college, of course!). I consider myself bi, I guess. I enjoy being with both guys and girls, but not at the same time. It all depends on my mood. I discovered masturbation at around the age of 13 or 14.

So, here's the question - - How wet do you get at different times? I've always had the feeling that I may be a bit unusual, so I wanted to "compare notes" with other girls/women. Here is what I am like ...

On a normal day (let's say that is a day when I don't participate in any direct sexual activity), by early afternoon, the crotch of my panties are pretty moist. Since this has been the way I've always been since going through puberty, I've always thought it was just normal and I've gotten used to the feeling of wet panties against my labia. By the end of the day, the whole crotch area is pretty damp.

When I masturbate (at home or at a hotel when I'm traveling for work), I pretty much have to place a towel underneath me to avoid staining whatever I'm laying on. Even before my fingers touch anything, I'm already really wet just in anticipation! I never need to use any kind of lubrication, I just dip my fingers inside my labia and they come out soaking wet. I usually cum relatively quickly because everything is so slippery.

Next situation is this, if I have an innocent encounter with someone I find attractive (girl or boy), or sometimes even if I just see someone in the next car or at the next table, my goodness - the wetness seems to increase by a factor of 5 times! I can feel my whole area down there start to tingle and immediately the wetness justs starts to accumulate. If I'm wearing tight pants/jeans, this can be a real problem! So, as soon as I start to feel the floodgates open, I usually try to find the nearest ladies room and dry myself up with TP, or if I can't stop thinking/fantasizing about the person, I masturbate as quietly as possible to relieve the feelings. Even then, I usually have to stay in the stall for several minutes after cumming until I am sure I can stop being so wet.

Now, in sexual situations, I get so wet I sometimes get embarrased. And it is more so with girls than with guys. (Guys never seems to complain about a girl being wet I guess - ha!). But, if I start getting comfortable with a girl, and we start making out or fooling around, OMG - that's all it takes! I get completely drenched! By the time she has her hand down my panties I am soaking wet - not just my labia, but a lot of times running down the inside of my thighs. Usually the other girl will find that sexy I think, but sometimes I wonder if they think I'm a freak. Because, when I put my hand down their panties, they never seem to be quite as wet as I am. After a great lovemaking session, the sheets underneath where I was are wet too. The "wet spot" can be like 8 - 10 inches across.

So my questions are:

Am I normal?

Have you ever been with a girl like me?

Are you like me?

What have been your experiences with wetness?

And one final question - - Do you think that ethnicity makes a difference in wetness level among girls? This is just a theory based on my own personal experience, but what I have found is that asian girls seem to be the "wettest". Opinions?

Thanks everyone!

-cami

genuinegirly

I have never experienced wetness to the extreme you describe.
I am usually a bit moist, but never overwhelmingly so.
I am a caucasian.

__________________
"Sometimes I have to remember that things are brought to me for a reason, either for my own lessons or for the benefit of others." Cynthetiq

"violence is no more or less real than non-violence." roachboy

Peaches

I find that I am damp a lot of the time and it also varies depending on mood and the stage of my monthly cycle. I have always worn a panty liner on those days that I expect will be more moist than others.

I am also Caucasian.

ngdawg

In my 20's thru my 40's, I was always damp and one daydream would make me want to change my underwear. The mere thought of sex would get me dripping. Sounds like you're normal to me....
Now it takes a little longer and it's sort of a "Hurry up! I'm still wet!" kinda deal

__________________
Don't blame me. I didn't vote for either of'em.

anti fishstick

i've actually not had this problem while on the pill. but i remember i would ALWAYS be wet a lot when i wasn't on the pill. it would be pretty annoying actually. it wasn't anything sexual or arousing to me, it would just happen throughout my cycle.. i am also asian.. filipino. i am thinking of getting off the pill starting next month so i'll let you know what i find..

__________________
And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.
~Anais Nin

SabrinaFair

It's cyclical for me--some weeks are wetter than others. Immediately after my period, I tend more towards dry. (unless the engines get going, so to speak) However, outside of sexual arousal, I'm not so wet it interferes with my day-to-day life. (I'm Caucasian, or "European-American", as my anthropology professors used to say)

__________________
"With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful. Strive to be happy."
-Desiderata

annie1

I also find it to be cyclical, but even on my wettest days I would not be near the same wettness as you, cami. That said, I wouldn't see it as a problem either. I am caucasian also.

stellabella1978

Although it has already been said, my wetness is cyclical - but never so wet as cami. I am also Caucasian, though separated from the Caucuses by ten generations. I think the number of Caucasian responses though skews the results of this informal survey.

anti fishstick

i actually have experienced dripping wet where I have drenched my panties before.. if i remember this was usually right before my period. but like i said, it is nothing sexual that i notice but i do end up getting kind of embarassed anyway, like i wet myself...

__________________
And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.
~Anais Nin