Dildos - Do You Like 'Em? (NSFW)
 

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I have never liked dildos.

Every man I have ever been with has loved to use them on me, though. I don't really understand it, but I've played along.

I've never gotten 'hot' from the idea or feeling of either using them or having them used on me. I've used them in all positions and different shapes and sizes to no avail. I'd much rather have the real thing (if a penis is around :p) or masturbate with my fingers. Simply having something inside my vagina that is not real and warm and flexible and attached to a thrusting body does nothing for me.

What are your thoughts on dildos? Do you get hot thinking about using them on yourself? Thinking about a partner using them on you? How do you use them? What type? Do you like realistic ones (like those shown above) or is there another style that you prefer?

Thank you in advance for sharing all of your innermost thoughts and feelings, as a woman, about dildos. :)

I definitely would rather have the real thing; a dildo just does not appeal to me. However, I would be interested in having a girl do me with a strap-on. That's about the only dildo-related fantasy I have.

I have a vibrator, but it's not shaped like a penis; I've found those don't do well for clitoral stimulation.

I could go either way :) I really like the feeling of penetration so I don't care if it is real or not.

My experience has been close to yours. mm. They don't really do it for me. I do, however, have a lovely new vibrator that ain't half bad. :shy:

Although I've been brutally honest with my guy about it, he's explained that he likes to see me get off and he loves watching the act of penetration. The original idea was to shoot pics of him penetrating me, but that ain't all that easy. :shakehead: He did use the dildo on me once while he was pleasuring me orally which wasn't bad at all ... :D Other than that little combo number, the idea doesn't excite me at all. Don't ask me why I have two of them. And yes, we've done that, too. Didn't work for me. And I never use either one alone.

I have to say I share your sentiments, I would rather go for the real thing. The hunk of silicon or whatever the heck they are made of doesn't really do it for me.

Note: It probably doesn't help that at first glance the pictures in the OP appear to look like they came from a dogs behind. Not all that attractive of a device really.

From a dog's behind? What the hell's coming out of your dog's behind Katyanna. :lol:

Thanks to whomever put the NSFW tag in my title but, honestly, don't open dildo threads when you're at work. Just a piece of advice. :p

Snowy, the strap-on thing occurred to me on my way home from class this evening. That just might be the dildo ticket. I think I really need that sense of engagement with another body to get into it.
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Just for the record, my dogs aren't into dildos either. :crazy:

I agree though, if a couple feels that something may perk up their love life and they both are in agreement, that's awesome. For me flying solo, I am not interested in a dildo.

When flying solo and want to have the penetration feeling along with clitoral stimulation I like to use a dildo. I have never been able to reach properly for my fingers to do any thing for me. Maybe its like how you can't really tickle yourself??? I just don't do it for me.

When with s/o we use dildo for strap-on fun of course but sometimes if his nails are bothering me but don't have time to trim them right then and there I'll ask him to use the dildo while he's going down on me.

I have used dildos before and whether I can get off from them or not depends on my mood. I have to be really horny to get off with a piece of plastic...it helps if it vibrates. Then it just can't be helped. But the vision and idea of a dildo? Eh, I can take it or leave it. It can be great, when used well. They are not my favourite sex toy though. Like mixedmedia, I prefer the real thing, any day.

When the real thing's around, of course I prefer that. Who doesn't?

But I love a good dildo for filling me up during masturbation, especially when combined with a vibrator. That's pretty much my ideal, when I'm alone. I like to look at XXX porn and move the dildo at the same pace as the guy fucking the girl in the video... I don't get anything from still-picture porn, it has to be a video of the penis in the vagina, or it's useless for me. :D

Very occasionally we use a dildo during sex, though it has been a long time since we did that. It's excellent for double-penetration simulation. I think we have 4-5 silicone dildos, including ones specifically for the ass (silicone-beads on a dildo).

I guess I like dildos, a lot. :thumbsup:

Well, double penetration...yez, that's something different. :suave:

See, then you still need a dildo... ;) (unless you have easy access to a second penis, I guess--which some do, perhaps!)

Um yeah I would gladly take two cocks over a dildo, but hey, I don't think he would be ok with it :)

just not into silicone.
i'll rely on my fingers or my man.
i've no connection with a dildo as i do with another person or myself.
there aren't any real inanimate objects that i am aroused by.
other than my camera, but that's different. :)

I never use them when I'm masturbating, I agree with you mixed - I just want the real thing! I'd much rather use my hands.

But, I do really enjoy my dildo (also vib) when my guy is going down on me, or to use while we're having sex (in my ass or vagina, either) for DP.

This one has been my favorite so far.
Lucid Dream #14 / G Spot Vibrators / Vibrators / Vibrator.com

But, when having sex with girls, dildos are much more fun!

Heh, I much prefer vibes over dildos, and I guess that's cause I get off way more on clit stimulation than penetration, although I love both at the same time (penetration + clit stim, not vibe + dildo) during partnered sex.