06-15-2003, 10:12 PM | #1 (permalink) |
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All the things we love about MEN
Ok the guys have got the idea for some reason or another that we are "man haters" in here.
I think quite the opposite is true. I love men. Maybe that is part of the reason I have stayed so long. I mean we are surrounded by 90%+ men here. I don't think that any girl who didn't like men wouldn't be here in the first place. So lets do them a favor and name all the things we love about them so that they can see how special they really are to us. 1)I love the feeling of a man's strong arms around me. 2)I love the feeling of being "protected" when in a mans company. 3)I love kissing a man. I love how their lips feel. 4)I like a mans perspective on things. I like to know his feelings. 5)I love a man's cock. (understatement) 6)I love making love with a man. Those strong hands....yummy. 7)I like when he gets up in the middle of the night to see what that noise was. 8)I like when a man gets turned on by just watching me undress. 9)I love when a man sticks up for what he knows is right. 10)Most of all I love a man who has a strong mind, body, and spirit. |
06-16-2003, 05:41 AM | #2 (permalink) |
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Great idea Nikki... *warm smile*... perhaps it will help "ease" some of the frustration, and the idea that many have of the LL being the "She-ra Man-haters Club" *laugh*
Anyway... here's a start on mine... more to come... 1) I too, love the feeling of being encircled by a man's big strong arms. 2) I'm also going to second your feeling of being protected when in a man's company. There is a safety that comes with that, that i never truly feel when i'm alone. It's almost a feeling of freedom for me... knowing that i will be protected should something go awry. 3) I love how easy-going most men are when it comes to the "little life crisis" that most of us women would FREAK about. 4) I love a deep belly laugh from a man... it brings a warm contented feeling to me. 5) Hands... Hands... Hands... Hands... did i say Hands? *grin*. I adore men's hands... all shapes and sizes... i love the feeling of being "under their hands"... "in their hands"... can't explain it really... just LOVE their hands. omg... i am realizing this could be a very long list, and i am already late... i'll leave it at 5 and come back to add more... wanted to at least get the thread going and support the idea Last edited by ~springrain; 06-16-2003 at 05:44 AM.. |
06-16-2003, 06:48 AM | #3 (permalink) |
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Location: Up yonder
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Oh boy....there's so many things to list that I'll have to be like springrain and do a few at a time!
~ ditto on the hands...I just love the feel of a man's hands ~ I love the feeling of safety and protection you have when you're with your guy ~ I love curling up against a strong chest...best thing going ~ I love the way guys are tough and will shrug off injuries ~ but I love the way guys go all soft when they are sick and want you to baby them ~ I love the sensation of being held in their arms ~ I love having them open jars I can't ~ I love watching them play sports ~ I love watching them shave More to come later!
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06-16-2003, 08:31 AM | #4 (permalink) |
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I love that unguarded look you get when they REALLY trust you.
I love it when I step up, and his chin rests on the top of my head, and his arms are around me, and nothing can get me I get a HUGE kick out of listening to them talk, especially to other men. |
06-16-2003, 10:17 AM | #5 (permalink) |
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I'll second (or third - heh) men's hands. Big strong man hands. And good shoulders.
I like that men are, generally speaking, fairly uncomplicated. Not that they're shallow, or simple, but that they tend to have fewer pretenses than most of us women. I have a hard time generalizing to "men." I know there are a lot of traits that are gender-specific, but I have a hard time separating my knowledge of individual men from larger trends. Here are some more, though: - Creative profanity. In general men are much better swearers than most of my women friends. And they are deeply impressed when I cuss like a sailor. - Most men love to eat, and don't really care how many calories are in something. Or, if they do, they don't make a big deal out of it. - They are so not ashamed of wanting sex. All the time. - I love that you rarely hear men bitch about their bodies the way women do. Granted, we seem to have more pressure, but I believe that the bulk of it is self-imposed. Media be damned, you can choose to like your body regardless of what anybody else thinks. - Let's not neglect the penis. Heh. - I love how excited my husband gets about gadgets and toys and things. He's like a little boy. So unashamedly enthusiastic. That's not a "man" think per se, as much as it is something I adore about my husband. |
06-16-2003, 12:58 PM | #6 (permalink) | |
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06-16-2003, 05:30 PM | #7 (permalink) |
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Location: Chicagoland
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Men that I like to be with remind me of puppy dogs- all the wonderful traits that they have- playful, warm, affectionate, ready to hump at any moment, easy going, & uncomplicated ( compared to women).
I also love broad shoulders, and a nice, tight ass. These are optional, however. Oh, and he must have a sense of humor- goes with the easy -going part. I love a guy that doesn't get worked up over petty stuff, the way I do sometimes. I love men that don't obsess about eating, but try to take care of themselves physically. One more thing- eating pussy. A guy that genuinely loves to eat pussy- he's my kind of guy. |
06-16-2003, 05:35 PM | #9 (permalink) | |
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Location: central USA
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i'd like to second the uncomplicated simplicity of men... it's a wonderful peaceful harbor to find when my oh-so-over-complicated mind takes over... |
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06-17-2003, 12:31 AM | #10 (permalink) |
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Location: UK
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I just love the child-like qualities. The sense of wonder they have for all their toys and our bodies, the sudden need for comfort when they're ill, the absolute joy they get from the latest version of Doom/Quake/Whatever
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06-30-2003, 10:31 AM | #11 (permalink) |
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Location: North Carolina
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I have to agree.. Hands are very sexy!!!! especially when he puts his arm around me and his hand is hanging over my shoulder . All I can do is admire it... hehe
chest hair (not tons just a little bit of a diamond) gotta have something to playwith when I'm resting my head on his chest.
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06-30-2003, 07:23 PM | #13 (permalink) |
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I love big strong arms that make you feel safe...
I love making love to him when he makes you feel like the only Women in the world. So many more...
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07-03-2003, 03:32 PM | #14 (permalink) |
Hiya Puddin'! Miss me?
Location: Silicon Valley, CA
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Men make the bestest friends because they are (well, most of them) low maintenance.
I love postcoital cuddling. Well, okay, I just like cuddling. I don't get the big strong and burly thing. I love men who are almost thin, but fit. It makes me want to rip their clothes off and kiss their not-overly muscular bodies inch by inch. Those are the only other things I can think of at the moment other than, well, their cocks.
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07-14-2003, 01:17 AM | #15 (permalink) |
Upright
Location: Olympia Washington
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I love it when a guy with a sense of humor also laughs at his own jokes. Even when they aren't funny, it's adorable to see them so amused with what they had to say that I find myself laughing anyways.
I like the fact they are mainly predictable. At least with the guy I am with now I know that he won't spontaneously freak out and get angry or start crying. Either that they are more emotionally stable or they control their emotions better, either way, it's something in most men that I appreciate. I also love the smile. He looks me right in the eyes with that huge grin and I feel so happy that I'm making him smile. |
07-16-2003, 09:58 PM | #16 (permalink) |
Loser
Location: Somewhere near Hubby
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I like it when my man "changes my mind".
When I'm not in the mood to do something (including sex but not *just* sex), I love the fact that he can come up behind me, wrap his arm around my waist, gently touch my cheek with his strong hand and whisper in my ear. In that moment, he can make me feel whatever he wants and make me want to do anything. I also like that fact that unbuttoning two buttons on a blouse will empty a man's mind and let you fill it with whatever you want. |
07-25-2003, 11:06 PM | #17 (permalink) |
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Location: There's no place like home..
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ditto to the hands, the warm embrace, and the child-like qualities (those are so cute)
and the way they answer their phone when they know it is you and it makes you feel like the most important person ever
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07-26-2003, 03:26 PM | #18 (permalink) |
Psycho
Location: Canada
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i love how insanly horny he is.
i love that i have to stand on my tip toes to give him really good kisses. i love that he used to take the twist ties from his lunch in high school and make hearts out of them. i love that he's an absolute two year old when it comes to toys i love the way he acts like such a cool big brother to my little sisters. i love the way he teaches me and is so patient. i love the way he kisses my forehead. i love his honesty. oooh, i love him. |
07-29-2003, 11:07 AM | #19 (permalink) |
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Location: Lebell's arms
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i love the way he looks in my eyes
i love the way he makes everything about sex fun and safe i love the way he kisses me and licks me (all over!) i love the way he smells i love the way he smiles i love how he supports me physically, spiritually and emotionally i love the way he holds me and protects me i love how he makes me laugh i love that we can have serious conversations i love hanging out with him i love being domestic with him i love that he is his own unique person!
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07-30-2003, 11:46 AM | #20 (permalink) |
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I love the way he gets all excited and euphoric when I'm wet through my panties.
It's like a puppy wagging its tail, and happy to see you. Or Homer Simpson and donuts. Mmm, donuts. It makes me giggle like a school girl, and I love that we can share these things and enjoy the company of each other (and not just when I'm all wet). Also, cocks.
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07-31-2003, 01:47 PM | #21 (permalink) |
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Location: South Dakota
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I just love the way how when I'm having the worst day and I can be angry or frustrated with him he can do one little thing thats so cute and cheesy and make me laugh and smile and forget what I was angry about to begin with.
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07-31-2003, 09:17 PM | #22 (permalink) |
Post-modernism meets Individualism AKA the Clash
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this would be a fun list to send yr SO sometime
-i love how he embraces me and gives me the biggest, warmest bear hugs ever -i love his smile -i love the way he rubs his eyes til his cheeks get red when he's tired -i love his babyish attitude in general when he's tired. it's so cute :P -i love it when he lays on *my* chest -i love his simple-minded, easy going attitude and the way he can always put me into perspective when i think too much -i love the way he plays guitar.. -i love the way he gets sooo excited over his favorite band -i just love the way he gets so excited
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08-02-2003, 06:51 PM | #25 (permalink) |
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Location: Somewhere in the middle
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I love how he always thinks the same things as me.
I love it when he kisses me on the forehead. I love how he wipes the tears from my face if I'm crying. I love how he gives me the biggest hug every time he hugs me. Most of all, I love how I still get butterflies everytime I look at him! |
08-03-2003, 11:07 AM | #26 (permalink) |
Insane
Location: Earth
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Man....most of your lists are "I love how HE".
Depressing me, the apparent lone single gal. Anyways.... 1) I love the safe feeling when their arms are around you. 2) I love their scent (cologne or not) 3) I love it when they sing or play guitar (or both!) to me. 4) I love it how being around them helps me forget all my troubles, even if only for a few minutes. 5) I love it how they know just what to do when you're down or crying...albeit a kiss on the cheek or a huge hug. 6) I love it how guys act all macho and shit in front of their friends but let you see their other side. Bah..there's more but I'm just depressing myself. |
08-25-2003, 07:48 AM | #28 (permalink) |
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*I love the feel of his slightly rough face against mine
*I love to hear him laugh *I love his hands also, they can do such magic *I love to listen to him talk about his favorite things: planes and cars *I love to be surrounded by his arms, I know that everything will be ok just as long as he can hold me. *I love waiting for him to come home from work to get my afternoon hug and kiss *I love having a lifetime partner who shares everything, my hopes and dreams and of course puts up with all my weaknesses. Ok I'll stop there, I am not a man hater quite the opposite actually............ |
01-26-2006, 02:43 PM | #30 (permalink) |
Fade out
Location: in love
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I love the feeling of cuddling up with a guy
I love that fact that he can pick me up and carry me to bed I love the fact that he has a lovely cock I love touching, licking and sucking on said cock I love that he is 'one of the guys' with other people, but soft/sharing his feelings with me I love that he enjoys fixing all our computer issues I love that he considers chivalry something that is alive and well in the world I love that he is not prone to hormone driven tears at certain times of the month I love that he smells delicious all the time, in a masculine way, i love his scent I love to see his gorgeous naked body... yeah... i it's safe to say... Men have plently of wonderful qualities sweetpea
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01-26-2006, 02:58 PM | #31 (permalink) |
Submit to me, you know you want to
Location: Lilburn, Ga
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I agree with everybody's lists!!
I would just like to add... I love the way he gets out of bed in the morning and comes in the bathroom and scratches my back and nibbles on my neck while im sitting at my make up mirror....every single morning without fail
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01-26-2006, 02:59 PM | #32 (permalink) |
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Location: on the back, bitch
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Wow, you really dug this one up!!!
Their ability to go from soft barely-there touches to caveman-style holding. Their hair. And if it's on a chest, oooooh Their wanting to take care of me, from my friends treating me to dinner to a loved one loving me. Their voices. Some simply blow me away.....
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01-26-2006, 03:05 PM | #33 (permalink) | |
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01-26-2006, 03:14 PM | #34 (permalink) |
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didn't know if this was one man specific or not so I am going to go with yes, one man specific for me
I love spending time with him and just letting go of all the frustrations. I love knowing that when I have events and such to go to alone he isn't hurt since he has the same things sometimes. Seriously, what is it about hands? I have to mention eyelashes on an all men scale. Every one of my male friends have gorgeous eyelashes! It isn't fair! That is my list.
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01-30-2006, 01:51 AM | #35 (permalink) |
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Location: Calgary
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Well from time spent apart from my boyfriend I can say...
I love the company he gives me that females just can't give. It's that total, complete, honest and insanely accurate understanding that even my best female friends can't provide. I love the way he carries my books, my groceries, my laundry. The way he opens the door, pulls out the chair, walks me to my door. I can't say I love all men, because like any gender, there's a few bad apples out there. But I can definitly say I love my man... |
01-30-2006, 12:47 PM | #36 (permalink) |
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Location: so cal
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love love love when they hold you to sleep, even if the room is hotter than hell for 'em and they continue to hold you anyway.
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01-30-2006, 03:19 PM | #37 (permalink) | |
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Location: With All Your Base
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I love the hands.
I love the way he mumbled, "I just want to lay with you next to me" when I was sliding away so I don't wake him up in the mornings. I love the look in his eye first thing in the morning when I was the first thing he saw. And the smile that goes along with it. I love the way he tried to improve his ass-slapping technique. I love the things he thought of to whisper in my ear during sex, when I couldn't even think straight enough to answer. I love the hair on his body. I love the way he trusted me to drive his car when he was too schnockered. Or just because he didn't feel like driving anymore. I love the way he used to grab my hand and just hold it at a stop light. I love his lips... oh man. and his eyes. But those lips. Dayum. I love the way he always checked to make sure the door was locked at night. I love how he never let me get away with bullshitting him. And I did try. I love the way he curled around me and cupped a hand on my breast. I love that he never went to sleep in my bed more than a few times without asking for my head on his shoulder. I love his smell after he rode the motorcycle all day and came flying in the door, dancing like a kid with a new toy. I love the he let me be his pillion. Aw, hell. I love him.
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01-30-2006, 04:40 PM | #38 (permalink) |
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Oh yeah... i forgot to add... I love that way He smiles when he's horny
I also love the way he holds me at night when i get cold... nothing warms me up faster than being held tight by the man i love sweetpea
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01-30-2006, 10:13 PM | #40 (permalink) |
Delusional... but in a funny way
Location: deeee-TROIT!!!
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I love how safe I feel when he holds me
I love how horny he always is, and the look on his face when he knows he's going to get some I secretly love when he slaps my ass, even though I pretend to hate it I love his sexy smile I love how we can have serious conversations I love how we can have completely silly conversations I love that he thinks I'm "cute" I love how he always tells me how sexy I am, even when I haven't showered and I have hairy legs and spitup in my hair and bags under my eyes... I love his delicious, sexy booty I love his strong arms and shoulders I love how he looks in his BDU's... *drool* I love how gentle he can be I love how vulnerable he is when he's holding our son I love how he can't hang up the phone without sayng "I love you" to me There are tons more but I'm tired, hehe. |
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