el nopal

Ok, I have a lover who talks dirty to me, but I don't like the "way" he talks dirty.

I prefer whispering in my ear.
Or... Saying different things....
Or.... anything but dirty repetitive statements about my anatomy.

He's a great lover, and he does everything. I mean everything, but the draw backs are there, and I just find I can't muster up my passion.

Orgasm is easy compared to wanting to feel the awesome rush of romance and craving.

How do I approach this?

savvypup

Hmmmm ........ delicate subject. Maybe talk to him the way you want to be talked to. Tell him where you want to be touched and what you want to do to him and what you want him to do to you. Coach him to what you prefer, and hopefully he'll catch on.

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ciao bella!