We always do lists as back-ups. We all try to get stuff for one another. However, if we get in a jam, then we can call on the SO of the person in question and get suggestions from the list. It is helpful

The only complaint I have is that I got nothing that I asked for from my parents. This makes no sense to me. They asked me to write a list then I tell them three things that I really NEED and instead they get me things I don't want/need.

I just dont understand is all.

well 2 options. Take the shit they gave you back and get what you want.
Or, take the mney you save frok not having to buy the shit they gave you and get yourself what you want.