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rat 08-02-2004 07:40 AM

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Originally posted by splck
Nice to see another child hating thread.:rolleyes:

While I wouldn't bring outside food to a restaurant for my kids and I rarely if ever have seen it done, I don't see it as such a big deal. I can't think of a menu that I've seen over the years that didn't have something for children. Maybe these parents should be choosing a different place to eat if they feel there is nothing on the menu for their kids.
I've been lucky in that my two girls are well behaved and aren't picky at all when it comes to food selection.

Ok, I'm done; carry on with the hate fest
:hmm:

It's not a child-hating thread, or at least didn't start at one. It's about the appalling lack of parenting that many people take. They don't even have control of their own children and let their children run roughshod over them. It's not the child's fault, but it is the parents'. It's the parents pandering to children and letting children make the decisions for them rather than the parents asserting their parental perrogative and actually being the head of their households.

And you're not lucky for having well-behaved children--it's your own damned fault :p

ShaniFaye 08-02-2004 07:49 AM

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Originally posted by Willy
So would you rather the parents decided to be a hardass and force their kids to eat the food there, even though they know it's going to cause a scene? or come in with a hamburger that they know will keep the kid quiet and happy?
this right here, unfortunately, is a prime example of parents who are ruled by their children. How in the world are you teaching your children good behaviour and discipline by catering to THEM just to keep them quiet and happy?

erion 08-02-2004 08:04 AM

See, I don't have this problem. I have a son who's just shy of two and he eats pretty much everything. We try to make sure we order something he can handle from the menu, but for the most part he'll east whatever he's given.

Yes, I do thank my lucky stars every single day.

animosity 08-02-2004 08:40 AM

I just think that it is completely tactless to bring food into a restaurant.
I almost opened a restaurant this summer and you can be sure that I would not serve anyone with Mc'Ds slop at my table. I would ask them to leave and that would be the end of it.... but maybe thats why I didnt open one.

PDOUBLEOP 08-02-2004 09:12 AM

ShaniFaye

That's what I was about to say.

I'm not a poet

The whole scenario will continue to escalate.
When their kids start driving these people will be BUYING the brats a new Mazerati just to keep them happy.

Nazggul 08-02-2004 10:55 AM

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Originally posted by Willy
So would you rather the parents decided to be a hardass and force their kids to eat the food there, even though they know it's going to cause a scene? or come in with a hamburger that they know will keep the kid quiet and happy?
I would rather that the parents don't take a child out to a restaurant when they know that the child is incapable of acting appropriately while there. If they can't, then you don't go until the parents teach them manners.

Cynthetiq 08-02-2004 11:00 AM

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Originally posted by Willy
So would you rather the parents decided to be a hardass and force their kids to eat the food there, even though they know it's going to cause a scene? or come in with a hamburger that they know will keep the kid quiet and happy?
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Originally posted by Nazggul
I would rather that the parents don't take a child out to a restaurant when they know that the child is incapable of acting appropriately while there. If they can't, then you don't go until the parents teach them manners.
That is correct, and that goes for ANY location that you are bringing your children, this includes screenings and movie previews, especially huge blockbusters like Matrix Revolutions and LOTR: Return of the King. Kids need to learn how to behave in different locations.

veruca 08-02-2004 11:16 AM

omg...don't even get me started on those people who bring BABIES to the movies...

Bill O'Rights 08-02-2004 11:45 AM

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Originally posted by veruca
omg...don't even get me started on those people who bring BABIES to the movies...
That is whole 'nother thread. ;)

Cowman 08-02-2004 12:10 PM

Im a college student, and if a bunch of my friends are going out to eat at McDonalds ill typically make a sandwhich at home and bring it along, as I don't eat fastfood. I would never do this in a restaurant, I'd simply not order anything if I couldn't find anything that suited my needs..however, I feel fast-food restaurants are so low class anyway..

How do you guys feel about that?

Averett 08-02-2004 12:15 PM

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Originally posted by Cowman
Im a college student, and if a bunch of my friends are going out to eat at McDonalds ill typically make a sandwhich at home and bring it along, as I don't eat fastfood. I would never do this in a restaurant, I'd simply not order anything if I couldn't find anything that suited my needs..however, I feel fast-food restaurants are so low class anyway..

How do you guys feel about that?

Why not get drive-thru, then they can join you at home/dorms/whatever with your sammich?

As for fast-food being low class.. Well, isn't that a bit snobbish? It might not be lobster and fliet mignone, but it's not mac n' government cheese...

VTBrian 08-02-2004 12:17 PM

The resteraunt I work at has a policey against bringing other places food in.

Trisk 08-02-2004 03:33 PM

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Originally posted by Cowman
Im a college student, and if a bunch of my friends are going out to eat at McDonalds ill typically make a sandwhich at home and bring it along, as I don't eat fastfood. I would never do this in a restaurant, I'd simply not order anything if I couldn't find anything that suited my needs..however, I feel fast-food restaurants are so low class anyway..

How do you guys feel about that?

If it's not a place where you're being served, I usually think it's okay to bring something else in....but it really depends on where you are, what the atmosphere is like etc.....I'd generally say Mcdonalds is okay.

maleficent 08-02-2004 03:54 PM

Most restaurants have a "corkage" fee if you bring in your own bottle of wine. Did that for a friends birthday, we brought in 2 really nice special bottles of wine that the restuarant didn't serve -

The restaurant charged us 15 dollars per bottle. Which was actually fine by us...

If someone brings in food from the outside, they should be charged a "foodage" fee. The table still needs to be cleaned up, the staff still has to be attentive.

rat 08-02-2004 05:20 PM

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Originally posted by maleficent
Most restaurants have a "corkage" fee if you bring in your own bottle of wine. Did that for a friends birthday, we brought in 2 really nice special bottles of wine that the restuarant didn't serve -

The restaurant charged us 15 dollars per bottle. Which was actually fine by us...

If someone brings in food from the outside, they should be charged a "foodage" fee. The table still needs to be cleaned up, the staff still has to be attentive.

the reason the corking fee is charged is because it violates their liquor license if you consume alcohol they didn't sell you. by charging you a fee for it, they've "sold" it to you, and therefore have not violated the laws regarding liquor/wine sales in their state. they did it to cover their rear-ends with the law. slightly different concept with food. I personally thinks it's a better idea to forbid outside food in a sit-down restaurant period. Saves time and effort enormously.

Cynthetiq 08-03-2004 06:37 AM

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Originally posted by maleficent
Most restaurants have a "corkage" fee if you bring in your own bottle of wine. Did that for a friends birthday, we brought in 2 really nice special bottles of wine that the restuarant didn't serve -

The restaurant charged us 15 dollars per bottle. Which was actually fine by us...

If someone brings in food from the outside, they should be charged a "foodage" fee. The table still needs to be cleaned up, the staff still has to be attentive.

that's what i love about NYC.. lots of restaurants that allow you to go to the corner store and buy beer and wine and consume it gratis in the restaurant.

maleficent 08-03-2004 06:38 AM

This restaurant WAS in NY :) I'm a tightwad, I go to the BYOB places in NJ - saves a ton of money.... :D


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