How many times....
 

have you thought of more things you wish you would have said or thought about you should have said during a disagreement with someone after it was all done and over?

Always.

Yeah me too, all the time.....

Oh yes.

Of course, the "shoulda saids" are usually not as bad as the "shouldn'ta saids"...

All too often...

happens all the time, sometimes with seemingly unimportant matters with how someone has annoyed me by just being stupid to more importantly and how i'm feeling now with me not telling my gf how i feel about her wanting time apart again :(

*edit*grammer sucks

quite often. So much that sometimes I want to start the fight over again so I can get in my last licks. :) I try not to do that, though.

Yup.

Oh for sure. A lot of times I think of comebacks long after the fact too.

It kinda sucks.

Hell yes... especially in relationships...

I live my life that way.

when 2 people disagree, both generally go into defensive modes, to gaurd against being 'hurt' by their counterpart. after seperation, both minds reveiw the incident and reflect on how a more effective 'attack' could have been launched. this is how about 90% of humanity works. those who can go directly to verbal attack mode become either leaders or prisoners, depending on their overall mental abilities.--my opinion