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dlish · 03-26-2009, 07:16 PM

DNA test shows 13-year-old Alfie Patten is not a dad | World News | News.com.au

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DNA test shows 13-year-old Alfie Patten is not a dad

Alfie Patten, 13, convinced he was a dad
DNA test shows daughter is not his
Has vowed to stick around anyway
A DNA test showed a 13-year-old boy in Britain is not the father of a baby born to a 15-year-old he had unprotected sex with once.

Chantelle Stedman told Alfie Patten, who was 12 when he slept with her, he was her newborn daughter Maisie's father.

The story caused a worldwide media frenzy after it was first reported by Britain's Sun newspaper, while politicians criticised what they called Britain's declining morals.

At first Stedman said Patten was the only boy she had ever slept with, but soon after other teens came forward saying they too could be the baby's father, because they claimed to have had sex with the girl.

It is still not clear who the baby's father is.

Last month a friend of the Stedman family claimed Patten was scammed by the girl's parents who wanted to cash in on the sensational story.

The Sun reported last month that Alfie had been seen wearing a hoodie emblazoned with the message: "I’m the daddy, if not f*** you all I’ll still be there".

after the whole hoo-ha a few months back, news is that Alfie is finally not the father!

what would you do if you were in his parents position? would you encourage your son to stay around?

i certainly wouldnt encourage my son to stay around. the poor kid was going to stay with her just for the sake of the baby, so at some point in time this relationship was doomed to failure.

Xerxys · 03-26-2009, 08:17 PM

Still wrapping my head around the fact that the 12 year old is getting some and I'm not!!

But no, I wouldn't stick around if it were me and if it were my kid, I'd grab a cane/belt/shoe ... you get the drift. Also make sure my kid stays the F*** away from that girl ... or any other girl for the time being.

This, of course will be followed by a nice sit down-livid father to son chat.

ngdawg · 03-26-2009, 08:19 PM

Hard lesson to learn at 13-people lie.
I don't hold much faith in his parents, but that kid's gonna need some therapy.

silent_jay · 03-26-2009, 08:19 PM

fuckin run kid..........

I've never heard of this until now, the kid looks like he's 8 though, pictures of him and the baby's mom together are funny, she's so much bigger than him. Just saw a pic of the hoodie he was wearing, that's funny shit, the middle finger going up the hood.

Glory's Sun · 03-27-2009, 03:51 AM

I've been following this since it broke.. something always sounded fishy to me. Now that he's shown to not be the father, I have to agree that the girls parents were in it for the money. Alfie's parents are well off, while the girls parents are struggling. So when it was found she was pregnant, they wanted the well to do boy to be the father. (theory)

The boy should run. His parents should run. They should get out of the situation before they get stuck with trying to pay for this kid.

dlish · 03-27-2009, 05:53 AM

he'll find the next big game on playstation and forget that this ever happened to him pretty soon. i dont know about the therapy part. he got laid. nothing happened..he accepted responsibility if it was his...how did this fuck with his head? apart from the media attention maybe?

his parents should be pulling him the fuck away.

i'd then s

Xerxys · 03-27-2009, 08:36 AM

Dlishsguy ... s?

genuinegirly · 03-27-2009, 08:57 AM

If he wants to be there for the kid, great.
If he doesn't, great.
It's entirely his choice.
I don't know if the media attention will impact his choice.
I hope he is happy with whatever path he takes.

dlish · 03-27-2009, 09:01 AM

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Originally Posted by Xerxys

Dlishsguy ... s?

its dlish

no idea what happened..meant to say "i'd then shoot the girls parents"

Daniel_ · 03-27-2009, 12:37 PM

Can't say this shocks me too greatly. It seemed odd all along.

LoganSnake · 03-27-2009, 01:06 PM

I'm sure he could have sex with a lot more attractive girl if he wanted to....

KellyC · 03-27-2009, 02:02 PM

I can't imagine how a 13-year-old kid can "be there" for his kid, assuming he's the father. Thank god he's not.

dlish · 03-27-2009, 05:54 PM

he gets pocket change from his dad every week.

from whatever he can spare from that he'll buy a toy for the kid. the rest would come from welfare payments of course.

im just wondering who the father is. she initially said she only slept with alfie. now a few boys have come forward to say it might be theres. this is so comical. what are they teaching these kids at school these days

03-26-2009, 08:19 PM	#3 (permalink)
ngdawg peekaboo Location: on the back, bitch	Hard lesson to learn at 13-people lie. I don't hold much faith in his parents, but that kid's gonna need some therapy. __________________ Don't blame me. I didn't vote for either of'em.

03-26-2009, 08:19 PM	#4 (permalink)
silent_jay Her Jay Location: Ontario for now....	fuckin run kid.......... I've never heard of this until now, the kid looks like he's 8 though, pictures of him and the baby's mom together are funny, she's so much bigger than him. Just saw a pic of the hoodie he was wearing, that's funny shit, the middle finger going up the hood. __________________ Absence makes the heart grow fonder Last edited by silent_jay; 03-26-2009 at 08:21 PM..

03-27-2009, 05:53 AM	#6 (permalink)
dlish Currently sour but formerly Dlishs Super Moderator Location: Australia/UAE	he'll find the next big game on playstation and forget that this ever happened to him pretty soon. i dont know about the therapy part. he got laid. nothing happened..he accepted responsibility if it was his...how did this fuck with his head? apart from the media attention maybe? his parents should be pulling him the fuck away. i'd then s __________________ An injustice anywhere, is an injustice everywhere I always sign my facebook comments with ()()===========(}. Does that make me gay? - Filthy

03-27-2009, 08:57 AM	#8 (permalink)
genuinegirly Eat your vegetables Super Moderator Location: Arabidopsis-ville	If he wants to be there for the kid, great. If he doesn't, great. It's entirely his choice. I don't know if the media attention will impact his choice. I hope he is happy with whatever path he takes. __________________ "Sometimes I have to remember that things are brought to me for a reason, either for my own lessons or for the benefit of others." Cynthetiq "violence is no more or less real than non-violence." roachboy

03-27-2009, 12:37 PM	#10 (permalink)
Daniel_ Evil Priest: The Devil Made Me Do It! Location: Southern England	Can't say this shocks me too greatly. It seemed odd all along. __________________ ╔═════════════════════════════════════════╗ Overhead, the Albatross hangs motionless upon the air, And deep beneath the rolling waves, In labyrinths of Coral Caves, The Echo of a distant time Comes willowing across the sand; And everthing is Green and Submarine ╚═════════════════════════════════════════╝

03-26-2009, 08:17 PM	#2 (permalink)
Xerxys Junkie Location: My head.	Still wrapping my head around the fact that the 12 year old is getting some and I'm not!! But no, I wouldn't stick around if it were me and if it were my kid, I'd grab a cane/belt/shoe ... you get the drift. Also make sure my kid stays the F*** away from that girl ... or any other girl for the time being. This, of course will be followed by a nice sit down-livid father to son chat.

03-27-2009, 03:51 AM	#5 (permalink)
Glory's Sun Registered User	I've been following this since it broke.. something always sounded fishy to me. Now that he's shown to not be the father, I have to agree that the girls parents were in it for the money. Alfie's parents are well off, while the girls parents are struggling. So when it was found she was pregnant, they wanted the well to do boy to be the father. (theory) The boy should run. His parents should run. They should get out of the situation before they get stuck with trying to pay for this kid.

03-27-2009, 08:36 AM	#7 (permalink)
Xerxys Junkie Location: My head.	Dlishsguy ... s?

03-27-2009, 01:06 PM	#11 (permalink)
LoganSnake We work alone Location: Cake Town	I'm sure he could have sex with a lot more attractive girl if he wanted to.... __________________ Maturity is knowing you were an idiot in the past. Wisdom is knowing that you'll be an idiot in the future. Common sense is knowing that you should try not to be an idiot now. - J. Jacques

03-27-2009, 02:02 PM	#12 (permalink)
KellyC Comment or else!! Location: Home sweet home	I can't imagine how a 13-year-old kid can "be there" for his kid, assuming he's the father. Thank god he's not. __________________ Him: Ok, I have to ask, what do you believe? Me: Shit happens.

03-27-2009, 05:54 PM	#13 (permalink)
dlish Currently sour but formerly Dlishs Super Moderator Location: Australia/UAE	he gets pocket change from his dad every week. from whatever he can spare from that he'll buy a toy for the kid. the rest would come from welfare payments of course. im just wondering who the father is. she initially said she only slept with alfie. now a few boys have come forward to say it might be theres. this is so comical. what are they teaching these kids at school these days __________________ An injustice anywhere, is an injustice everywhere I always sign my facebook comments with ()()===========(}. Does that make me gay? - Filthy