Question for the Ladies
 

So, my gf is claiming, and I quote, "Every girl has had sex for money at one time or another"

Now, I don't think this is true. Ladies?

has she had sex for money?

She would be...incorrect.

But then again, I ain't no Lady!

ask her for her definition of the term "money" and i think you'll find that she's right...

Once upon a time, long long ago, I heard someone say that a woman who marries to be supported in life is just a different kind of prostitute.
But, in reality, I don't know of any woman who has ever 'had sex for money'.
Sounds to me like she's justifying an action of her own....

Not every girl. I didn't marry to be supported. I've worked, most of the time harder than he did. I can honestly say that I have never had sex for any kind of renumeration. I have sex because I want to. Period.

Money means just that, Money, cash, little peices of paper with pictures of dead presidents on them.


yes she has

She's wrong, totally wrong. I know many more ladies who would never, ever have sex for money. Me included.

That being said, I also know a few women who had it for a spoonful of coke. They seemed to think it was a different way of "trading" something for something ....i.e. commerce.

Literally then she is incorrect. Figuratively she would still be incorrect IMHO but closer to being accurate.

I'm speaking completely literal here.

I just looked in my pants and I ain't no lady either. I think people have sex for many reasons; when the attraction relates to power, often there is money or the material trappings of success involved. Can that be construed as sex for money?

If it's literally sex for money, then I would say that's prostitution. Did she claim that income on her tax return?

A man goes up to a woman in a bar and asks

"$50 to blow me in the men's room"

the woman is taken aback and promptly slaps the man across the face.

"that's a horrible thing to just come up and ask" she says.

"Fine he says, how about $1000!"

Taken aback even more, she things about it for a while, and notices that he is a handsome man, and it wouldn't really be more than a few minutes of actual work. She could really use the $1000..

"Okay, fine" she says, "but money up front"

The man hands her a $100 bill and says "how about this?"

"$100! I'm not going to blow you in the mens room of a seedy bar for $100! What kind of woman do you think I am?"

to which the man replies the moral of our story:

"Oh, I thought we had already figured that out, and were now haggling on the price..."


~fin

Some of us bitter individuals tend to describe the modern dating schema as legalized prostitution.

"$200, $200, $200! $250, do I hear $250? Going once-going-twice-SOLD... TO THE WOMAN WITH THE INVITING MOUTH-HOLE!"

Every girl? Well she's wrong, because I haven't, and never would.

What are we referring to here exactly? I don't get it. It seems plain to me that statement is wrong. I'd say that

"Most women would not have sex purely for money...though of course there are always some that would." Seems more balanced to me.

Why did she say that to you?

Because shes an idiot. She still stands by the comment tho :rolleyes:


Shes nuts, I really hate her at this point. Shes over 50 and I'm 25, met her when I was 14 if that gives you any indication as to the craziness we're dealing with :shakehead:

Like whoa.

Dude, marry her.

No wonder you're on illicit substances.

This.

But this is part of our basic natures, nothing to be ashamed of.

You need to get out more often.

So, was your girlfriend a hooker? Or just willing to fuck for money?

I don't know that I would have completely ruled it out at one time in my life.

It would have to have been the right guy and the right price.

Now however it would be out of the question.

[threadjack/sidenote/this reminds me...]

With one of my ex-girlfriends, we used to play a game where one of us would go and sit somewhere with lots of people nearby, and then the other would wander up and try to "pick up" the other one by being as crude and undesirable as possible.

One time, after saying hi and asking her if she lived nearby or just came for the atmosphere (something I considered to be nicely cheesy), I interrupted her answer in mid-sentence to say, "I have to be honest with you, you're talking and all I can think is how much I'd like to put my penis in your mouth-hole."

The conversation continued to devolve from there, and of course she acted like she loved it, despite everyone around us giving me the death stare.

[end threadjack/sidenote/this reminds me...]

Not illicit in Montana ;)


and shes not my gf.

Not anymore. I need to get out and find myself a nice slice of 'normal'

But was she a hooker?

Not it.

No, and no, and no.
Sheesh.

That would put me on permanent deferral for blood donation!
:lol:

I can honestly say I have never had sex for money - I have sex because I enjoy it.

But then again I can honestly say I have never had a guy buy me dinner that didn't come in a paper bag, I've never had a guy buy me movie tickets without me giving him the money first, I've never had 'spontaneous presents' from a guy I slept with and we usually go in turns to the bar for drinks when we're out. So even in the whole dating scene I've never had sex for money.

Then again most of the people I have slept with have been FWB so we're friends first and the sex is just a nifty bonus.

HAHA true or not, depending on how you want to get into the semantics of it.

Do you think they would actually admit it? We are talking about women here!

Well then i suggest that you tell her not to make statements like "all women bla bla bla"

I've never had sex for money and I don't intend to unless healer and i do a bit of role playing :D and even in that case I wouldn't accept actual money just embrace the idea of being fucked like i was a whore. lol.

But yeah, get out and find yourself someone your own age.

nah...let's rather not...it's too easy

No. Not every women has sex either.

Funny, how many "ladies" are responding to this thread...

Pfft... have you seen my tuck job? I'm pretty hot as a lady.

Oddly enough, I have no trouble believing this.

And with this, every man who reads this thread instantly falls in love.

I'm trying to find her rough location by tracing her IP# right now.

hahaha

I dunno take the corollary. Has every guy paid cash money for sex? I sure as hell haven't. But have I give things that were valuable to people with whom I have had sex? Absolutely. Just not, ya know, up front. That ain't classy.

I would balk at any outright trade of goods / favors for sex. Not least because I shouldn't get anything out of sex the other person isn't also.

She thinks EVERY girl has had sex for money?

What does she do...ask every woman she meets? "Yea, I 'd like a big mac, fries, and say, um...have you ever had sex for money?"

I never have for money, never will. I cannot remember any woman who has told me that they have. But then, I've never asked.

What she could mean is that most ladies have been with a guy they almost care nothing about, and a bit of cash was the "push-over-the-edge" factor that made the difference.

That's definitely believable.

Wait, wait! Does "dinner and a movie" = remuneration?