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pinche vato
Location: backwater, Third World, land of cotton
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Road Rage disorder
I found this on Yahoo this morning (are we boycotting Yahoo or not? I'm fuzzy on those details).
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I wonder how many of you who read this and comment on it are guilty of these transgressions, too. If you came up behind me in my daily commute, would you tailgate me in the hopes that you could "push" me into going faster just to suit you? Would you pass me on a dangerous hill and purposefully downshift two gears at once just to make a loud enough engine noise to "teach me a lesson?" If I pulled out in front of you would you refuse to touch your brakes and slow up a little bit in order to "teach me another lesson?" I've had people behind me in traffic start to get out of their cars to confront me because I didn't pull into oncoming traffic quickly enough to suit them. I've noticed that there seems to be a "five-second rule" at any stopping situation. Once a driver has waited five seconds, then that driver MUST pull out in front of whatever traffic is coming and go go go. To have somebody behind you forced to wait longer that 5 seconds is apparently a capitol offense. I used to have a theory that cocaine was such a huge problem in the 80's because its users felt powerless in their lives and they needed something to erase that feeling. Is road rage the new version of that theory? Do people feel so useless and powerless in their lives that they have to "get even" with their cars?
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It's all downhill from here
Location: Denver
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I don't understand people who get all pissed off in traffic. They go through the same thing every day, and get mad all over again every single day. If they could record themselves - the way they behave - in traffic, and then play it back for their family and freinds later, maybe they would get some sort of perspective on their behavior.
As far as it being a disorder; I think that much is obvious. But I see it more as a personality trait. Some people are perfectly fine until they find themselves driving a car. Then they just turn into jerks over the smallest thing. It can be hilarious to watch, though. People flipping out at traffic (even though they are ALSO traffic) always makes me shake my head in confusion.
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Junkie
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Location: Chicago
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It's not biological at all.. the road ragers have a distorted sense of self worth ![]() ![]()
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Tilted Cat Head
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Location: Manhattan, NY
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driving, standing in line, walking down the street, sitting on the bus, shopping, whatever the activity, people think that they have the birthright to be an asshole, some think it funny and even "charming".
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will always be an Alyson Hanniganite
Location: In the dust of the archives
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I mean...why not? That's just one more thing that people no longer have to take responsibility for. Right? ![]() In so far as "Road Rage" goes, here's a little observation of mine. I drive a 1977 Chevy pickup. And...it looks it. I call it my "Old Whore"...not pretty anymore, but she still gets the job done. Anyway...I've noticed that when I'm entering the Highway, to get to work in the morning, if I'm driving the Saturn...people cut me off right, left, and from behind. However when I have the "Old Whore" on the road...people give me a very respectable amount of distance. They stay the hell away from me. Could it be the 29 years worth of dents and scrapes? Is it a subliminal "Look here...this happened from the last guy that tried what you're thinking". Maybe. All I know is, the Old Whore makes my morning commute much less stressful.
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I aim to misbehave!
Location: SW Oklahoma
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I see that same difference depending on whether I am driving our Suburban or my bike. My wife refers to the Suburban as the "Intimidator". People will look right at me on the bike and just pull out, but not in the Suburban.
I do notice that when I drive my little bitty 26 year old Chevy LUV truck with all of it's dents and rust that people give me a wide berth. It looks like it has been to hell and back a few times.
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Psycho
Location: In your closet
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I sometimes feel that I have a mild case of this. I dont get "Road Rage" but I get pretty pissed off a few times a week in trafic. I dont know how bad it is where you all live. Waiting in line for 15 just to get ON the interstate and having some asshole jump or try to jump right in front of you, really makes my blood boil. Really, what makes him so special that he doenst have to wait in line like everyone else.
I saw this weekend the talking heads talking about this. Its sounds like a lot more than just road rage. I wonder if IED will hold up in the court system, like a temporary insanity. |
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Psycho
Location: O-K-L-A-H-O-M-A
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My thoughts precisely. When did it become cool and accepted to throw temper tantrums like a 2 year old when you're an adult?
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Junkie
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Location: Chicago
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Boob = intermittent explosive disorder = IED = Improvised Exploding Device = Booby trap
Wonder if they planned the name?
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will always be an Alyson Hanniganite
Location: In the dust of the archives
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peekaboo
Location: on the back, bitch
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I'm married to someone who does the following:
If a driver sticks out of a side street a bit too far, he aims for them. If the light turns green and the car in front isn't stomping the gas, he rides their bumper. Same for people not passing fast enough in the left lane-he tries to go through them. If anyone does something stupid, like swerve, go too slow in the left lane, etc., he yells, not AT them, just yells in general, even if the action had nothing to do with him. If he sees someone coming down the shoulder and he's in the right lane, he'll swerve into the shoulder to block them. I white-knuckle it riding with him and stopped doing any roadtrips because it stresses me so much to be in that car with him. I admit, I get pissed, shake my head at stupid moves, but my theory is get out of the asshole's way. I have encountered people in the past who have jumped out of their car and come punch mine (uh, yield right of way does NOT mean you try to cut ME off, whacko) and another who, after I told him his brake lights have been on the past 2 miles, followed me, tailgating so close I couldn't see his headlights, and tried to run me off the road. I might mention that the spouse is quick to anger all the time-he hollers rather than converse, which is exactly how his father was and his father died of a massive heart attack at age 62. His brother is mostly the same way and had a heart attack at age 49. The article is interesting, but it's a chicken/egg kind of thing, I think. Are these assholes that way because of some serotonin/chemical make-up or did being an asshole affect it?
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Location: Some place windy
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Yeah, it's interesting that we're now giving a label to "being an asshole". I wonder how long it will be before someone is fired, and sues on the grounds of being let go for their "disorder". I'd love the see the defense on that one... "But you weren't fired for a disorder, you're just an asshole!!"
And thank you very much, warrrreagl, for your thoughtful and well-articulated opening post opinion. It really goes a long way to help a thread foster input from others and grow as a discussion when there's a good opening post opinion to accompany an article. - analog. |
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God-Hating Liberal
Location: Silicon Valley, CA
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My previous cars were kind of junker Hondas. The difference in my daily commute changed drastically when buying a Saturn. People are weird. ![]()
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Junkie
Location: In the middle of the desert.
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I notice that I tend not to get tailgated a lot. I think it is simply that I will move to the right and yield the passing lane. The other day I noticed someone who had been tailgaiting the car behind me did give me an appropriate following distance. I think he observed my behavior, and when he came up behind me he was willing to wait for me to finish passing because he knew I would move over when I could.
I find that I am generally treated courteously, and I think it is because other drivers observe me being courteous. I notice that people who follow too closely tend to be followed too closely, and in heavy rush hour traffic, I tend to simply stay right and allow plenty of room between me and the car ahead. I think there's an inherent assumption in our society that people will not behave courteously. So we tailgate under the assumption that the guy in front doesn't intend to let us pass... And if he doesn't, well, it's not that big a deal for me to commute for an extra two minutes...
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32 flavors and then some
Location: Out on a wire.
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It's a real disorder, but as I've been fond of telling students who come up with all kinds of excuses for misbehavior or not doing their work on schedule, that explains the behavior, it does not excuse it. We don't control how we react emotionally, but we do control what we do and say.
I got this today going to the store. I needed to turn right from the offramp going onto a main road, and the red right turn arrow turned red long before I got to the intersection, so I stopped and waited for a solid green or right turn green. The woman behind me honked, edged up, honked again, starting making gestures, then rolled down her window and started yelling and making other gestures to all around. She seemed to get more angry each time there was a gap in traffic ahead, though I saw none I'd feel comfortable pulling into anyway. It was amazing to witness, though a bit scary at the time, to get so angry over such a small thing as being delayed by traffic for roughly a minute, maybe 90 seconds at the most. The way I look at it, it's like the weather. There are poor and inconsiderate drivers out there, and you're going to run into them whether you like it or not, and it really is foolish to take it personally. It does about as much good to get mad at the weather. I do get tailgated a lot, but I'm not driving in any way inconsiderately. I keep to the right when possible and move to the right as soon as it is safe to do so, but I still get tailgaters every time I pass. Gilda Last edited by Gilda; 06-16-2006 at 09:57 PM.. |
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The sky calls to us ...
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Location: CT
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Great, now people are going to start saying, "It's not my fault, I'm a natural-born asshole."
I dont' give a shit if it's biological, if I can overcome ADHD and study, you can overcome your impulses and not try to run me off the road because you're offended that I honked at you for swerving into my lane (this has happened, and in the most stereotypical way possible, it was a 40-something-year-old woman with a cell phone driving an H2.) |
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