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I didn't start dating until I turned 18 really, and I'm still a virgin. I had alot of trust issues starting it all out, and while I have many many girlfriends, this is the first time I've actually submitted myself to the title of "relationship" or physical intimacy.
I think trust in the other person is really the hardest part to give into, because its easy to be sure of yourself when you're not looking out or worried about what the other person is doing or saying, so really you just have to give up on some of the precepts you have about yourself and learn from the experience. Its all about give and take, and it only sucks when that doesn't balance out. I know there are alot of girls out there that would love to get ahold of guys like us, because we're easyily influenced by the newness of things, so its probably best not fall into that trap of being at her beck-and-call or anything.
I guess the point is, just go for it and be self-confident. I've been with my girl almost three years now, and I've never been better.
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"I hate to advocate drugs, alcohol, violence or insanity to anyone, but they've always worked for me."
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