I didn't get married 'till late, so both I and the women I went with all had a lot of experience under our belts. And so I know for sure that after awhile, everybody's got history, everybody's done things they probably shouldn't have, everybody's got blind spots. The real point is whether, at this point in time, they've learned from all that and got beyond it.
At 18, say, maybe not yet. But some people do grow up when young.
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