Two brother-in-laws, both loosers imo (Can't hold jobs outside of the military, multiple affairs, etc.)
Two "chosen" sons -- has helped them grow up and figure out what they want out of life.
I think it is all what you decide you are going to get out of it. You can only be "taught" good citizenship, honor, etc. if you are open to learning it.
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If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
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