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you just need to talk to her man
Ask her what she likes, what her fantasies are, what she'd like to try. Obviously she enjoys sex from what you say, maybe she just feels a little bit shy about it - I would definitely recomend you dont come up with a whole load of suggestions that to her may sound freaky or nasty, just let her keep control - and try out new things at her own pace, and find out between you what she likes, what you like - what is good for the two of you.
I mean, you have a fiance you love, who loves you, you have a great sex life, you just want to spice it up - thats a pretty good situation you are in from that perspective. Like I said, dont rush her, dont pressure her, just encourage her to try different things and talk about what she might want, try and make her feel enough at ease with you that she can open up - that would be my advice.
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