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Getting her to open up
Hello all...
I don't post much here - I lurk from time to time but I have a question and I think this is the most appropriate place for it.
First of all, I love my fiancee. If she never changes that's fine - I'll be happy with her. The sex we have is good and frequent. That said, I never dated anyone before her who wasn't wild and freaky in bed. My fiance is very different and I want to be careful in how I approach this because she could assume that I'm totally unhappy or (whatever).
So, anyway...sexually she is rather reserved. I think she'd be fine if we had sex with little or no foreplay in the missionary position for the rest of our lives. But like I said, it's good and frequent.
What I would like are pointers on getting her to open up - I'm not looking for her to have an orgy or a threesome or a gangbang or whatever - but just to take more time to enjoy it - maybe experiment with toys or whatever - but whatever happens, I'd just like to introduce more variety.
Any of you guys ever date woman like this who was reserved? Did any of you women start out reserved and get more adventurous due to some influence? I'm just looking for ideas that will help.
Oh, and porn is out. She is firmly anti-porn.
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