into the balliwick i jump.
from my perspective (40 yr old bi-kinky-perv)
girls:
most of the ones interact w/ in my line of work (retail) while many are pretty (or drop dead HAWT), the emotional maturity just ai'nt there. (what I call 'pretty body, ugly attitude) and while they may have the 'mechanics' of sex down, I believe there is NO substitute for experience (what works, what does'nt), which tends to only come from growing up. That, and concidering my 'baggage' (see the "scenes from a journey" thread elsewhere in this forum), many of the girls that i 've run across would seem to be unable, in the words of Jack Nicholson to handle "The truth...YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH" In reality, for many years, neither could I.
guys:
it's a little different (yeah, a double standard, lash me w/ the wet noodle
) the age/maturity notions are the same as girls, but there is also them being 'open to the possibility' of sex. the majority are'nt, some are.
Funny thing, back eons ago (the Pleistocene Epoch, if memory serves), i used to think that one of the coolest things would be to take the 'cherry' of someone (either m/f). Now, today i'm not really sure i'd want that awesome responsibility.
That's how i see it, from my seat behind the thick post (Norm Nathan)