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I only managed to reach that point twice my hand myself and then just about a month ago at a house party got to experience it twice. Nothing special done the first time at the house party. The second time it took hardly any time before I reached that point. What triggered it the second time was the guy spanking me. Some things I've realized help things along is
1. Familiarity with my partner (not the only thing but helpful)
2. Direct stimulation of my clit and G-spot at the same time.
3. I have to be thoroughly relaxed.
I have found that right before I ejaculate I have the sensation of needing to pee. I kind of tense up JUST slightly and that is all it takes to stop me from ejaculating. I had heard this before but until I actually felt the sensation and then the release I didn't recognize it for what it was. Now that I know what it feels like I can do it more often. I have experienced it about 4 times in two months now. It doesn't happen every time but it's much easier.
It makes me feel more satidfied that when I cum without it. Hubby gets an ego trip from it I think and it isn't any so messy that it's not fun. It makes sex smoother and more fun if we continue afterwards. We're just prepared to wipe up afterwards - not unusual anyway.
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My Karma just ran over your Dogma. 
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