I guess my typical answer would be, "If you're thinking of cheating, you're not in love." But thinking of cheating is also usually a symptom of a problem with the relationship, or, well, a problem you might be having, respectfully. Some people, usually as a result of a rough upbringing, don't have the skills to perpetuate or sometimes even recognize a healthy relationship. Of course I say this without judgement, since I don't know much of anything about you. But I can tell you from personal experience that there are some troubled people out there who aren't able or willing to resist certain impulses.
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