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Originally posted by *Nikki*
Is cheating ever an option if you really love your partner??
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I'm not crazy about how you've phrased the question, but I think I agree with where you're headed.
Calling cheating an "option" makes it sound like the result of a rational process. Is it a valid "option" to cheat on someone you honestly love, having given it due thought and consideration? Of course not.
On the other hand, is the urge or the desire or the thought--in the absence of a rational process--
perfectly natural? Sure. The one way you can know we're more evolved than animals is that we don't necessarily have to take action on every instinctive twitch of thought that goes through our minds.
Have I thought about cheating on lurkette? You betcha. Have I had the urge to or the desire to? Yup!
Will I ever cheat on her? Nope, never, not in a million years. At least, not without her permission.
