I don't see it as a matter of too much or too little, but as a matter of balance. There's a time to tease, and a time to please and a time to tickle the tonsils. I had one girlfriend who was shy about tounge kissing (and absolutely nothing else); one girlfriend who was very, very good at it, everything from just inside the lips to the bbeginning of the soft palate to sucking my tongue; and one girlfriend who, every time she kissed me she stuck her tongue as far back as she could and held it as stiff as she could. I imagine it felt something like fellating a midget - interesting, but not the best thing for every day.
All about balance.
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