if I'm not mistaken what the problem is is that his family treats it now as though they WOULDN'T accept it if he DID actually come out and say that he was gay. And that's a problem.
I had a real good friend who told his parents that he was gay when he was 13 and they completely disowned him... tried to convince him that he wasn't, tried to set him up on dates, and it was really hard to see him have to go through that. If I were you, feelgood, I'd be worried too. If something like that DOES happen, you have to show him that he has your support, if not his parents.
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