Thread: Sex hurts
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Old 12-31-2003, 11:37 AM   #6 (permalink)
sexymama
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Angel is a wise woman. Prep for the future so that you are ready for your pleasure and his. Not to mention the pleasure you will experience in the process.

For now, lots of lube, as the ladies have said. Then, do it slow and easy and take your time. Mostly, enjoy what you can and don't obsess about "doing it all right now." You may be putting too much pressure on yourself to perform which may subconsciously cause anxiety and thus pain. Relax and have fun -- do ONLY what feels good.
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