It's not normal.
You might want to re-think whether this is a healthy relationship....it doesn't sound like the feelings are going both-ways, here.
While I'm not advocating that you two should be constantly in contact with each other, I find it strange that she didn't even give you her phone number back home. You need to ask yourself, "why is that?" It could be that she forgot (not very likely, but it's an option), it could be that she's got you compartmentalized as her "school" relationship, or it could be something else entirely....what, I really don't know.
You might want to talk to her when you two meet up again. Explain to her how her distance effected you, and see if the two of you can work through it. However, it might just be that this pairing has run its course, and it's now time to move on.
I realize that this is your first real relationship, but understand: it's almost impossible to find "the one" your first time out there. Treat each relationship that goes by as a learning experience, and use what you learned in finding a new partner.
Eventually, you'll find that special someone who completes you as a person.
Good luck, and let us know how things go.
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