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Originally posted by vveronica
As far as the Dom Sub thing there...if she is into the master/slave thing, find out right now how much... It can be a very sensual experience and really help in a long didtance relationship..
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I think on a much subtler level everyone is into the dom/sub thing.
Maybe not even consciously. But everyone enjoys control and if they will allow themselves to can enjoy the results of allowing someone else to be in the drivers seat.
The sesuality is always there if you can get out of your head and your pre-progammed hang ups.
But I mean control on a much more visceral level.
I've had a girlfriend tell me how powerful she felt and how turned on she got from passionate kissing and caressing outside of her house after a date (it was so passionate she made me cum just by the body contact).
She felt immense sexual power that she could make me do that. After that the sky was the limit for her. Masturbating me just to watch me blow, again commenting on how cool it was to have the power to do that. There were other things she would do to revel in this power as well. (better not get off track her, lol)
Other women have since confirmed this.
Power is a very relevant theme in our sexual make up... usually for good some times bad... but thats another discussion.