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-Ever- · 12-18-2003, 06:03 AM

In a nutshell, I met an amazing, blow my socks off girl while studying abroad in London. She´s my age, 20, and loves me as much as I love her (or so it seems). We´re wild in bed, have tons of similar interests, and love spending every minute together, exciting or boring.
While we were in London though, she got pretty flirty by the end of our trip with the other girls who were in our group. She never did anything more than kiss and maybe make out on the dancefloor for a few seconds. I´m just wondering if you think this is healthy. Here´s the main thing: I personally don´t care too much as long as I know she loves me, but it´s odd because when we go out to clubs, we don´t wind up spending much time together. If I´m sitting with my guy friends, she´s off dancing, enjoying being with herself on the dancefloor ( I think she likes the attention). Knowing that she´s got love for me, she resorts to only dancing with girls in that she won´t dance with other guys when I´m not there. Odd or not?
We´ve also got a different relationship than normal. We´re kind of into dominance and submission and she likes calling me her master and when likes me calling her my slave (I like this too!) So I feel like I should almost let my little girl run off and do what she wants with other girls as long as she holds true to me. It´s fine for the shortterm, but do you think this says anything important about the longrun? We´re about to begin a semi-long distant relationship (visits about twice a month) and I´m just wondering what I should think...
Thanks for listening guys
-T

12-18-2003, 06:03 AM	#1 (permalink)
-Ever- Junkie Location: San Francisco	Girlfriend kisses other girls. In a nutshell, I met an amazing, blow my socks off girl while studying abroad in London. She´s my age, 20, and loves me as much as I love her (or so it seems). We´re wild in bed, have tons of similar interests, and love spending every minute together, exciting or boring. While we were in London though, she got pretty flirty by the end of our trip with the other girls who were in our group. She never did anything more than kiss and maybe make out on the dancefloor for a few seconds. I´m just wondering if you think this is healthy. Here´s the main thing: I personally don´t care too much as long as I know she loves me, but it´s odd because when we go out to clubs, we don´t wind up spending much time together. If I´m sitting with my guy friends, she´s off dancing, enjoying being with herself on the dancefloor ( I think she likes the attention). Knowing that she´s got love for me, she resorts to only dancing with girls in that she won´t dance with other guys when I´m not there. Odd or not? We´ve also got a different relationship than normal. We´re kind of into dominance and submission and she likes calling me her master and when likes me calling her my slave (I like this too!) So I feel like I should almost let my little girl run off and do what she wants with other girls as long as she holds true to me. It´s fine for the shortterm, but do you think this says anything important about the longrun? We´re about to begin a semi-long distant relationship (visits about twice a month) and I´m just wondering what I should think... Thanks for listening guys -T __________________ Embracing the goddess energy within yourselves will bring all of you to a new understanding and valuing of life. A vision that inspires you to live and love on planet Earth. Like a priceless jewel buried in dark layers of soil and stone, Earth radiates her brilliant beauty into the caverns of space and time. Perhaps you are aware of those who watch over your home And experience of this place to visit and play with reality. You are becoming aware of yourself as a gamemaster... --Acknowledge your weaknesses--