rose, something that works well for me, is to be on top, on my knees, kinda, but laid down over him. that way I can move my hips w/ the balance I get from being on my knees, but the angles a LOT more comfortable and easy to maintain. also, put his hands on your hips and tell him to move you so it feels good, ya know? It's kinda an arcing motion for us, not sure how to put it into words, but everyone's different, so experiment. the bouncing thing makes the boyfriend smile, but it is DAMN tiring
trick there it to get up on your toes and put a hand on his chest for balance. the porn stars put em on the thighs, but i haven't gotten that one figured out yet. it's the difference between leaning back and leaning forwards. If you've got the balance for it, do neither!
Oh, and one more thing: there is no "wrong" way to do it. really. Unless someone's bleeding. but that's about it. :P Move around, adjusting angles REALLY makes a difference for me at least. changes which bit is getting rubbed, and all. Good luck, hun
