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*Raises Hand*
I hate to admit it but I've been this guy countless times. Hell I've never gotten as many phone numbers as when I was a bartender.
It has never been a personal thing. Dont blame yourself, it is 100% the guy. People like us are interested in the chase and are love to flirt. The problem is that when we get the phone numbers we lose interest most of the time (barring the occasional one that sparks our interest in a not so typical way). I say again, dont blame yourself, it is entirely the guy.
That night I am absolutely sure he was extreamly interested in you. The problem is the night goes on for him after you leave, he has to clean up, take out the trash, help clean vomit off the floor, etc. So by the time he gets home he isn't thinking about you, he's thinking about BED.
He probably had the intention to call you, and like me he probably looked at the phone number from time to time trying to decide to call, but something else gets in the way. This continues until about the 10th day past when it's pretty much suicide for him to call because most girls wouldnt remember who he was.
I know nothing about this guy except for the dozens of guys just like myself. I'll say this AGAIN, it is NOT you, it is him. Keep going out, eventually you'll spark someone's interest and something beautiful might happen.
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