You actually might be surprised on turning down head. When she is giving me head, it usually means she is ready to move on to penetration. I might be hard but sometimes I'm not sufficiently aroused to really get off on sex. If I"m not aroused enough, I generally won't come. Now we tend to communicate with each other on when either one of us is turned on enough to move on to the next stage. It isn't as clinical as it sounds as we know each other well enough to communicate non-verbally (touches, etc.)
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