In my humble opinion, you need to leave her alone. The worst "friend" is the one trying to tell you you need to change. I have friends that have been smoking pot for 20 years (or more), they are quite successful in the general American ideal of success. It's amazing how many people I have met in my life that I would have never guessed they smoked if I didn't see if for myself. I felt just like you. I was not into the drug/party scene at all, but they are terrific friends and I wouldn't change them for the world. I believe The_Wall is pretty right on. Good luck...I believe in the end you will find out it's easier to accept or leave than fight what you think is the problem.
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