Having been in your ex-girl's position in life, know that it is just probably a phase. Some people just need/want to go through something like that as part of their life journey. Who is to say it will last or that is is even an issue for you to judge her on? She is a responsible person and needs to make her own decisions - not all of which will be right or favorable from another's (your) perspecitve. You've got to let her live her own life. You can tell her how you feel, but make sure it doesn't come off as you telling her how to live her life.
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