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Originally posted by jimk
if you are surrounded by great friends.........focus on being with & appreciating them for a while. if you have great friends, i don't know how you can call yourself lonely.
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Wise words, IMO.
You need to be a bit more out-going. You may think you are, but the love addict personality exists because it feels a need to fill an extra slot of security and reassurance. You need to feel needed, basically. You sound like a decent person. BE that decent person. Go out and have fun- joke around, hang out, date for the sake of dating and meeting new people, and not for the purpose of finding love. If you look for love, all you'll find are people. However- if you go out and look for people, you will surely find love, or love will find you. And try not to be so clingy, girls see that as desperation. Desperation NEVER makes for love. Love comes- it is not a process, an agenda, or a checklist.
- reformed Love Addict (yup. it's true.)