the main issue in this thread, however, is not about date rape. It's about whether a woman, having fully and willingly consented to sex, can at a later time decide she wishes she hadn't had sex, and accuse the man of rape.
This has happened before and it nearly universally has ruined the man's life.
The problem with this tactic is that it trivializes the real rape cases. Rape victims have a tough enough time, with some idiots thinking they egged the rapist on by wearing a short skirt, etc. They have to deal with a potential media frenzy, having their name plastered across every newscast and newspaper. They have to deal with the humiliation at having been violated. Why should they have to deal with people thinking "yeah, but did she want it then and is only crying rape because she regrets it now?"
Women who pull crap like this are hurting all the REAL rape victims. To be blunt, it's an asshole stunt to pull, and it frankly disgusts me.
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