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Repeat after me: Sex with Ex = Bad.
Have her repeat after you: Sex with Ex = Bad.
It sounds like she wants to use you as a reason for something. Maybe she's unhappy with her current relationship. Whatever her reasons, it sounds like bad news to me.
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Just because I'm a guy doesn't mean that I have no control over my sex drive. If anything, I'm not the kind of guy to have sex with anyone if I'm not feeling committed to her. I simply refuse to go the route of objectication of others and myself (which both would be true if I had sex with her) out of philsophical reasons. I'm strong enough to handle that; it just sucks that my dealings with women have come to me basically having to defend myself. What this is accounting to is that I'm going to basically have to lose her as a friend because she isn't being mature enough to handle a friendship. That is the real issue for me, not whether or not I should have sex. The answer is definitely "no!". This is why the Fortress of Solitude is looking like a good place to return to for a while, I can always trust myself at least.