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The more planned it is and the more stilted it sounds the less I would be interested. If the guy sounds sincere and open then I'm more willing. It helps if you have an idea of what you'd like to do too. I wuold respond better to "Would you like to go for some coffee tomarrow morning?" rather than "Would you go on a date with me tomarrow?" The guy sounds more focused on the fact that it's a date rather than really wanting to DO SOMETHING with me when he doesn't give me a clear idea of what he would like to do. Also it's harder to say no when it doesn't sound so terribly SERIOUS. A girl gets the jitters just the same as a guy. Start out small and you'll both be more comfortable.
Don't worry about funny pickup lines and things. I like the plain old simple "Hi" and the simple invite. I'm a girl who doesn't put on a show or lots of makeup. Someone who's REAL and Honest is more attractive to me.
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