My wife is the best. She knows men are dogs and we are gonna sniff whatever attractive tail comes near. She also trusts me and knows I'm gonna look, dream, fantasize, but not touch.
She hasn't always been this way. When we were first married she didn't like my roving eye at all. It pissed her off. I guess her trust of me has grown.
In fact, once I came home from a business trip telling her about a woman who was coming on to me in a bar. My wife was happy for me. She seemed to think it was a big ego boost that I could use at the time.
This may be a little off topic, but I've had a few girlfriends who were crazy with jealousy. There was this one gf, for example, and we went to a Talking Heads concert together. We were very close to the stage in a small venue. The female member of the band, Tina Weymouth, began smiling, winking, and laughing in my direction. I loved it, but my gf was furious. It was so rediculous. What was I suppose to do? Not look at the band? My gf was a complete basket case. The rest of the concert was ruined.
Now my wife trusts me completely, and I have given her good reason to. I think that's the key. Also, girls, you need to know that guys will look and dream. It's simple biology.
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