I check out chicks with Ratbastid, and we used to read Playboy together (never read Maxim). He called me last week to tell me there was a hot naked chick in the apartments behind his office - I was jealous not because he was looking at a naked woman but because I wasn't there with him!!!
All of this is beside the point. How we react or don't react makes no difference - what's important is how your wife feels about it. If it makes her uncomfortable to see you checking out other women, then you shouldn't do it in a way that she notices. If she's uncomfortable with you reading Maxim, you should either work with her to make her feel better about it, or not get the magazine. Like it or not, fair or not, ogling other naked women is not a right of a married/committed men. Some men are lucky enough to have women who don't care, but you have to respect her boundaries.
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