I have encountered a ver similar situation with hubby. He has apologized for what it looked like and been willing to compromise to help me trust him more. Also I have been more calm in communicating my concerns. Neither one of you have handled this in a mature way. In my opinion you both need to walk away from the relationship and don't look back.
From reading your posts my instinct tells me you're the one at fault. I can't honestly say that though because I don't know the whole background. All I can say is that your posts sound rude, harsh, and unforgiving. When you have that kind of attitude most people will be unwilling to give in and apologize. You complicate matters not help them with a strident attitude. Personally I find your attitude very irritating. I don't doubt that she does too.
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