I don't agree that she is thinking of being infidel or that she would have been. She might just be plain insecure personality as it seems? But I agree thaat it will take huge amounts of time and effort and the effort must start from herself to change and trust you. The thing with paranoia is that the accused can do nothing to help it. If you act differently cos she's accusing you, she's intepreting that as some sort of telling signal.
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