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Her actions seem fueled by a guilty conscience, either through past infidelities or consideration of future ones. Or maybe she was burned really badly by her last boyfriend. Either way, she has self-destructive trust issues.
I don't recommend talking, because it sounds like you've already talked her ear off trying to convince her of your decency. I don't recommend counseling, because you've only been together for a couple years and marriage doesn't sound like a factor.
Shauk, I don't think she wants to trust you, judging by how quickly and heavily she jumped on the slightest twinge of wierdness. Whatever you decide to do, don't, don't let her get a rise out of you. She wants you to feel the distress she feels, as payback for the misdeeds she is rather pathologically convinced you committed. Just calmly walk away from this one. This event is a symptom of a problem of hers that is not worth trying to fix, IMO.
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