Dude, you just pretty much answered everybody's questions about what is a bad relationship in your second post.
A: She doesn't trust you
B: She's paranoid
C: She ignores what you try to say and attempts to clam her down
Personally, that's a really really bad combination for a relationship. It's probably one of those times of the month but who knows, women are just out to get us ya know?
I know you've been living with her for a year (From what I read) I didn't read anything abour how long you've been together but it kinda seem vain if you and your gf were to break up, especially after a long meaningful relationship. I would suggest that you try counselling. She really really really needs to stop, take a deep breath and clam down and then when she's ready, then you guys should have a serious talk and try to figure out how this started, why it started that way and how it could be resolved.
I can see how things get out of control from your point of view but you should try seeing things from her perspective. What she may have saw is you sending a picture of yourself to another woman online and that can be blown out of portion and she may think that you're seeing somebody else and you're trying to cover your ass and "get your online friends to gang up on me". I know this kind of situation all too well.
My point is, you both need to clam down, take a breather and talk. That's all it may take to save your relationship.
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