I get along well with my in-laws. In fact, we joke that if Ratbastid and I ever got divorced (god forbid) his family would keep me
It's not always smooth sailing. His dad gets on my nerves sometimes, and his mom can be a little passive-aggressive pushy with the "you two would be such good parents" hints, but otherwise I love them
It could be worse...a friend of Ratbastid's family is Mormon, and she married a Southern Baptist who was converting to her faith. They spent last Thanksgiving, before they were married, with his family in Kentucky. His brother is a minister and was none too happy about the news of the conversion, and in the middle of a very tense family dinner, he stood up, pointed his finger at the groom-to-be and yelled "I'd rather you were dead!!!" and stormed out of the room. The wedding was odd - no alcohol because of both sides' religious convictions, and barely-contained hostility from the groom's side. So, it could be worse. At least your in-laws wouldn't rather she was dead than married to you!