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Originally posted by Jackshit
I want sexual contact, but also physical closeness.
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you might get the sex, but you wont get any closeness at a massage parlor. a massage parlor is more of an assembly line type of sex joint. a brothel, on the other hand, might be more in line with what you are looking for. of course, these are much harder to locate.
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Originally posted by Jackshit
I just have needs and I want to remember that I am alive.
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am I the only one who sees that Jackshit seems to be in a world of emotional distress here? the two comments I quoted suggest to me that he is very unhappy in his relationship. obviously, I dont know what the "history" between he and his SO is, so I cant comment on the why's and wherefore's, but it sounds like his SO is emotionally as well as physically distant from him.
Jackshit, instead of the massage parlor, have you tried discussing this issue (the detachment, not the massage parlor) with your SO? if not, you should. remember, this is a very serious step you are contemplating. besides the risk of disease and arrest, what would your SO think if she found out?
finally, some of you (maximus, asudevil83) need to remember the TFP charter and rules. I dont think either of your comments were helpful or supportive in any way. rather, they were just extremely negative. thats not the TFP way.