Casual sex hasn't been something I've thought about for some while.. it really never was. Love is something I wanted and that doesn't exist in casual sex. Casual sex is just a feeling, where as love is more, a lot more.
Love is hard to find but it's worth the wait.. it really is. When you love someone considerably and you both work together and tend to each other intimately the sex can be better than anything rescieved casually. This does not mean casual sex is all bad, but I would say sex within love would almost always beat it.
I honestly don't know the answer to your question for everyone but for myself, it is a no. I make all the attempts I can to get to know the person I'm with. I try and get close to her before we are even intimate, I want to know what she wants. I want to see her for mind and goals, not just a beautiful body. Love is about trust. Sex without trust is just for a good time. Sex with love is something more.
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