i have to say i find it a tad hyocritical you seemingly complain about the woman being unethical when you are reading someone elses email. If you can't tell the difference between regular emails and some spam bot type of thing bogging down an email queue that makes you read each email, well i dunno.
then again everyone doing something seemingly wrong to others always has justification for it, i'm sure she does too.
everyone has their skeletons, half the sysadmins i know have the biggest network share of mp3s and porno