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Sometimes, people do get past the lust stage, and that is nothing to feel bad about. But, that doesn't make most people act the way she is acting.
It sounds, to me, like she is not ready for the type of long term relationship that you are ready for, and she is trying to show you. She may feel smothered. I know, because I have felt this way before, and acted almost the same. I wish I hadn't now that I look back on it. I think that she loves you, but can't be as serious as you are.
I could be wrong, though. All you can do is confront her. If you want to salvage the relationship, you have to change things. If she is not willing to change them, then sorry. Leave her.
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