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Originally posted by Oopsfix
lol, excelent advice, i guess its true too..but what about being witty and things like that? asking question after question seems kinda weird to me...
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As Seaver said, Active Listening is your friend. You don't need to worry about "being witty", etc., if you're scared of even talking to them. Maybe after you come out of your shell you can start thinking about that, but there's no rush.
Basically, keep the conversation focused on the girl (not to the point where you refuse to answer questions, but I mean keep asking her stuff about her life, try to get to learn as much as you can). As long as you are interested in the conversation, she'll appreciate the opportunity to talk about herself.