So I chatted up this nice girl called Elyse, we got on really well. Were interested in the same stuff, both were sick of being f*cked around by the opposite sex, both interested in a relationship etc.
I was polite to her, treated her like a person rather than a 'hot chick', etc etc. She used to call me every day, during her lunchbreak at work and then when she got home.
I had a coffee date with her, and I spent an evening at her place, we made out & stuff. I asked her out and she said "not yet, I probably will though", and everything seemed all good. I asked if she wanted to get dinner with me this week, she seemed keen for that too.
On monday I spoke to her, and she said she won't be able to make it for dinner because she has overtime at work doing stocktake etc. Fair enough I thought, so I left it at that.
Since then, she hasn't called me again. I called her place on Wednesday night, and her mum told me she'd gone out to the movies. ( Stocktake eh....
) She's not replying to my text messages, she hasn't called me back when I rang her place, she won't reply to an e-mail I sent her, and I rang her tonight but her mum said she was eating dinner, so I said I'd call back in 15 minutes... but she'd gone out when I called back 15 minutes later.
If she's rejecting me, I'll get over it. I have no clue as to why she would, because I've treated her how she wants to be treated all along. The thing is, I have no f*cking clue as to what's going on, I dunno if she's avoiding me, if she hates me or what.
What the hell is wrong with her ? I texted her tonight asking her to tell me what's up, and if she's rejecting me, to just tell me straight up that's what's happening.
I suspect she's suddenly got another guy who has caught her interest, which actually wouldn't bother me too much if she just TOLD ME WHAT'S GOING ON !!!!
ARGH... how should I deal with this ? It's annoying the crap out of me. Advice/suggestions really welcome. I'm sick of treating people right and being treated like crap in return.