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Originally posted by sillygirl
I cannot for the life of me imagine carrying a child for nine months and then not getting to spend those precious moments holding him, feeding him, bathing him, watching him as he finally sleeps. I can't imagine myself being able to let my child go, or not be able to see him at all after he's born (I don't really know what the procedure is).
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_totally_ irrelevant.
you have
GOT to put what's best for the child first.
and if you keep this child, you will be doing that for 18+ years.
know what you're getting yourself into.
/end rant.
regardless, i've never been in your situation before, because i knew from the time that i started my sexual activity that the
only way i will have a child is 100% planned. no exceptions.
but that's what's rite for me, i cannot make that decision for others. it certainly is possible for a young person, with the right resources (time, $, supportive people, etc) to raise a child properly, provided one has the proper frame of mind and 'constitution' to do so.
i *do* wish you the best of luck with however things turn out.
