My sis found out she was pregnant when she was 20. She had a month when our parents were on vacation in Israel to stew over what she would say to them.
Turned out to be twins, otherwise she and her now hubby would have opted for adoption. I don't know how she handled the unintentional judgements and flack from our very conservative parents and relatives, but I am so grateful to have her children in all of our lives.
She and the father were married a couple of months into the pregnancy and now they have three happy little children, all unexpected bundles of joy (birth control doesn't always work). She and her family now live with my parents, things are going well and all are very supportive.
I hope the best for you, I commend you for keeping your baby and for keeping the father in your child's life. Not the easiest path in life, but my sis has always had angels round about her little family and I am confident that you will as well. Godbless.
Last edited by Litespeed; 10-28-2003 at 02:56 PM..
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