themanic1

ok, so i'm getting out of an incredibly involved relationship. multiple years and a lot more than that, even. no kids, nothing like that, but enough that i was completely and totally emotionally invested. but now that's over. and i'm considering getting back with an ex.

we dated many, many years ago when we were both kids (i wasn't even 20 yet, and i'm in my late twenties now). she's grown in the years we've been apart and so have I... both in good ways. we've gotten together a couple times now and can pretty safely say that we still have feeling for each other. she's incredible in bed, a complete and utter freak of kink which is something i've missed for as long as she and I have been apart. she's smart, cultured, artistic, witty... pretty much everyone that this most current ex wasn't. essentially she's my ideal mate. now for the bad...

first off, we live kinda far apart. a state apart. neither of us is looking to relocate so if anything is to come of this, it's going to be long-distance for the forseeable future. and while that's good for you kids in college, it's different at our age. another thing is the timing. i am trying to figure out if it's just a rebound i'm going through here or if i really, truly and honestly still do love her. i think i do, but i wanted to know how many people have been in a similar position and have had it turn out fine.

i think the important things to note here are that a: we are grown up now. so a lot of the teenage angsty drama doesn't apply anymore and b: the timing of it all. i got out of this huge relationship on a wednesday (basically) and the saturday before that, she ended a 3 year thing with her boyfriend too. so is it a case of two rebounds or could it be ... dare i say, fate?

themanic1.